The Book
11 chapters of practical, evidence-based strategies for co-parenting neurodivergent children
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Navigator's Compass
Your quick-reference guide. Preface, disclaimers, and how to use this book.
Cartographers of Uncharted Waters
You packed for a picnic. You landed in the Southern Ocean.
Understanding the Waters
The Ferrari brain. The Linux OS. The soldier behind enemy lines.
Two Captains, One Ship
When your co-parent thinks you're the problem.
The Morning Passage
Why she's still in her underwear at 8:47am.
Stormy Seas
Meltdown vs. tantrum. One needs boundaries. One needs safety.
Bridging Two Worlds
The handoff from hell—and how to fix it.
School and Beyond
IEPs, ORS, and the meeting that makes you cry.
The Wider Village
When Grandma says 'she just needs discipline.'
The Caring Compass
You can't co-regulate from burnout.
New Horizons
Puberty hits different when the brain is wired different.
The Voyage Continues
The manifesto. You are not broken. Neither is she.
Appendices
A Note on Neurodivergent Authorship and Writing with AI
How three AI agents and one human wrote this book together.
Glossary
The Mariner's Dictionary of terms and acronyms.
Resources
Recommended books, podcasts, and support organisations.
Printable Tools
Visual timers, launch pads, and survival cards to print.
Evidence Base
Research citations organised by chapter.
Works Cited
Complete bibliography and references.
Transition Checklists
Age-by-age preparation guides.
Important Notices
Disclaimers, crisis resources, and acknowledgements.
What's Included
Field Guides
Neuroscience explained in plain language for every topic
Survival Cards
Quick-reference protocols for crisis moments
Ready-to-Use Scripts
Exact words for child, co-parent, and bystander conversations
Parent Toolkits
10-minute exercises with "If Co-Parents Disagree" variations
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